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How are you

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“How are you”? People will probably ask you this question A LOT! Most of the time, we use this question as a polite way to say hello, and you don’t need to say anything about how you are really feeling.  Say one or two positive words, thank them for asking, and ask them the same question. Any of these answers will work almost all of the time: “Great, thank you. How are you?” (very positive) “Good, thanks, and you?” (positive – this is the most common answer)  “Fine, thanks. How are you?” (a little less positive – I’m okay) Your answer will depend on the person who is asking, and how well you know them. What to Ask Instead of ‘How Are You?’ During a Pandemic Everyone’s doing badly.  We need better questions to ask. Every conversation I have these days with someone who doesn’t live in my home—every time I call my friends or family member, every reporting phone call—kicks off with a brief, awkward, accidental .... “Hi!” I say. “Hi!” the other person says back. “How are you?” I ask next, o

Mindful Morning Routine

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Often we think that this week is "starting fresh" week,  and with it come a few things you can use to start fresh in any moment of your life. The way you decide to start your morning can have a major impact on how the rest of your day will go. You can start your day randomly each morning if you want, but creating a meaningful morning routine may be the better route to take if you're looking for the most productive and stress-free use of your time. Every moment is an opportunity to start fresh, to become fully awake to our lives in the present moment and let go of the past. In fact, to become fully awake to the present moment with …being mindful itself to let go of the past. In every moment that we're mindful, we've decided to live our lives most fully and have chosen freedom instead of the chains of the past. And this doesn't have to be something specific like a relationship or difficult challenge, it can be anything…simply anything… But at times that can be e

Meditation Practice for Focus

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Stop! Fearing the worst...live in the moment

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“ The day you stop worrying will be the first day of your new life; anxiety takes you in circles, trust in yourself and become free.” — Leon Brown   Tired of predicting the future? It might be that fearing the worst, is robbing you of the present…   You notice a dark brown spot on your forehead. You lean closer to the mirror and examine it closely. It is dark in color, with irregular borders. It’s melanoma, You are thinking. As You brush your teeth, You imagine your final days. Your friends visit, bring you flowers and sit by bedside you. You imagine your funeral take place in a beautiful park by your house. People are huddled in small groups, speaking in hushed tones. So sad, she was so young. You put away your toothbrush and your heart is flopping around like a fish on a pier. You reach up and touch the spot. And it rubs off. It was hair dye.   It’s 7 pm on a weekday and a loved one is late home from work. They are also not

Connect With Yourself

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Connecting with yourself is a monumental and life changing event. Loneliness and desperation are only possible when we have lost touch with our beauty within. Once you connect with yourself, it is impossible to be lonely or desperate. ————-Bryant McGill  What does it mean to be connected with yourself?  For me, connection means feeling in alignment with my highest self, it’s feeling capable, strong, loving and compassionate. It’s a sense of knowingness and wisdom that is completely unique to me. Lately I have been searching for more and more ways to feel some sort of connection to myself, perhaps because, I have been feeling disconnected. It’s so easy to go through the ins and outs of life and forget some of the important things. Connection for me is important. I’m not going to judge myself for feeling disconnected, but instead, focus on things that I can do to get back in touch with myself. I had a very poor relationship with myself. I was always striving for externa